How to Cultivate Clarity of Mind and a Loving Heart

Shi Yao Hai/ July 22, 2017/ Consciousness Growth, Happiness, Love and Understanding, Understanding Mind/ 1 comments

How mental clarity affects the strength of the heart is a very deep & profound topic. It is greater than just mastering feelings, but let us begin there… The clearer and freer a mind is from referencing things personally and/or judgmentally, the more feelings are able to assist in the process of guidance. Lack of clarity misleads feelings, just as easily as does any emotion. Feelings are different from emotions, as we will discuss later. Further, if an

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Two Great Lions

Shi Yao Hai/ May 13, 2017/ Consciousness Growth, Happiness, Healing, Love and Understanding/ 0 comments

There are two Great Lions, but before I speak of these, let me speak of the field in which they live: Life is a living workshop to grow to our greatest capacity. What is the greatest accomplishment in growing to our greatest capacity? It is to live from inner peace and only in a loving state in our heart, all of the time. If you have ever fallen deeply in love, while that was happening nothing could bring

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Why Finding Meaning in Life is Elusive

Shi Yao Hai/ April 16, 2017/ Consciousness Growth, Happiness, Understanding Mind/ 0 comments

Meaning and Life’s Work You are either working with Life from its power, or your work and your life will reflect varying degrees of emotional pain and meaninglessness.  What is true work and how does Life truly work? The five understandings of meaning …the purposeful creating of a meaningful life: 1:  Recognize where meaning does not come from… That meaning does not and can not come from any extrinsic values or external experiences. There is no way that

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Is the Road Ahead Misery?

Shi Yao Hai/ March 15, 2017/ Consciousness Growth, Happiness, Understanding Mind/ 0 comments

If you think your road ahead is misery, it is better to not go there in the first place. But if you have to go there, rename your destination. If you think that the where you are going is misery, you will only shut yourself down and stop creating your life with the elements of living from life. Instead, if you are choosing the where to be creatively and with determination, and not with emotional interpretations of unfinished

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Be Here

Shi Yao Hai/ March 10, 2017/ Happiness, Love and Understanding, Understanding Mind/ 0 comments

The root of all mental illness that is not caused by physical poisoning or traumatic physical injury, arises from learning to live in one’s mind, and not in life simply as it exists. This is living in the past and the future, which can only happen in one’s mind. All such holding on mentally to the past and the future is not living in the moment. This is the crux of Buddha’s psychology. But how do you let go

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How to Use Words to Change / Create Your Experience

Shi Yao Hai/ February 18, 2017/ Consciousness Growth, Happiness, Understanding Mind/ 0 comments

You are where you are in life, because of your words. Sounds strange, doesn’t it? But it is how you use the meanings that are evoked by your words that cause your experience of life. All of the “conversations” you’ve had in the past… led to all of the decisions that came out of those conversations… which led to all of the actions (that were mostly reactions), that had their roots in those decisions. And all of this

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