Category Archives: Love and Understanding

How to Cultivate Clarity of Mind and a Loving Heart

Shi Yao Hai/ July 22, 2017/ Consciousness Growth, Happiness, Love and Understanding, Understanding Mind/ 1 comments

How mental clarity affects the strength of the heart is a very deep & profound topic. It is greater than just mastering feelings, but let us begin there… The clearer and freer a mind is from referencing things personally and/or judgmentally, the more feelings are able to assist in the process of guidance. Lack of clarity misleads feelings, just as easily as does any emotion. Feelings are different from emotions, as we will discuss later. Further, if an

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The Spiritual Capacity of Women

Shi Yao Hai/ May 27, 2017/ Consciousness Growth, Love and Understanding/ 0 comments

For the most part in this world, men have had much more freedom than women to accomplish what they can in their lives. So this post is primarily directed to women… As a very young child, meaning is yet undefined. Feelings rule experience. This continues until the feeling of fear is extrapolated into fearful ideas. This only occurs after and to the degree of learning language. The more sophisticated the skill of language, the greater the facility of

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Two Great Lions

Shi Yao Hai/ May 13, 2017/ Consciousness Growth, Happiness, Healing, Love and Understanding/ 0 comments

There are two Great Lions, but before I speak of these, let me speak of the field in which they live: Life is a living workshop to grow to our greatest capacity. What is the greatest accomplishment in growing to our greatest capacity? It is to live from inner peace and only in a loving state in our heart, all of the time. If you have ever fallen deeply in love, while that was happening nothing could bring

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Recognizing Sacred Truth

Shi Yao Hai/ April 28, 2017/ Consciousness Growth, Love and Understanding/ 0 comments

The highest form of Truth can never be found in appearances of circumstance. For with appearances we have already premeasured in worldly terms, what is for us good and what is not.  Sacred Truth whether it is evident or not, most always resides in the hearts of those in love with what is truly Sacred. This Truth’s token is its call to Love.  Sacred Truth will never be evident in the promises of power, or importance, for this

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The Fallacy of New Age Self-Forgiveness

Shi Yao Lian/ March 22, 2017/ Consciousness Growth, Healing, Love and Understanding/ 0 comments

Every time I’m on Facebook lately, I see many well-intentioned but misunderstood shared posts encouraging the same theme. It’s usually something to do with self-forgiveness, not looking back and only looking forward, and not dwelling on mistakes. The truth is, none of these strategies really work the way people think and want them to work. Mostly, this kind of thinking acts as a defense mechanism for a person’s ego. There may be guilt or shame around past actions,

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Be Here

Shi Yao Hai/ March 10, 2017/ Happiness, Love and Understanding, Understanding Mind/ 0 comments

The root of all mental illness that is not caused by physical poisoning or traumatic physical injury, arises from learning to live in one’s mind, and not in life simply as it exists. This is living in the past and the future, which can only happen in one’s mind. All such holding on mentally to the past and the future is not living in the moment. This is the crux of Buddha’s psychology. But how do you let go

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